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Tuesday, September 4, 2012

55# 結婚潮


























今年的結婚潮終於結束了
一共去了 4場, 有 4場沒辦法參加
好恐怖, 一直被炸

上禮拜天的婚禮從大壞變大好
因為朱是伴郎, 所以我是真的完全的落單
跟他比較熟的幾個朋友也都是伴郎...
所以真的一去就躲在角落, 狂低頭玩手機
還好有陳媽媽喝茶睡不著可以開導我 XD



朱居然還有心情跟我開玩笑
我的臉整個臭爆了,  狠瞪他
直接跟他說 "這是最後一次我會看在你的面子幹這種事 (去一個會落單的 party)"
落單這種事已經發生太多次了, 我真的忍無可忍!
因為我都盡可能的不讓他落單, 所以他沒有顧慮到我真的讓我很想呼他幾掌

還好他會治我 ((還是說根本也沒別的辦法?))
直接把我拖去介紹給其他朋友, 所以我即使臉再臭也不得不 'put on my happy face'
雖然說是我答應要去的, 因為是他的 best friend 結婚
新娘我也算小熟, 人非常 nice
但落單真的是一個非常想殺人的感覺, 而且坐的一整桌也都是我不認識的

Anyways, 這一整輪下來我有幾個心得
1) 婚禮還是小而巧比較溫馨
    去的四場婚禮有兩場是小婚禮, 大約 10桌, 都很 sweet, 很感動
    不知道是不是大婚禮因為 budget 的關係, 場地很貴, 沒什麼佈置, 沒有 "Awwww" 的感覺
    大約 10~12桌是剛好. 有些是 20+桌, 說真的, 一半以上都不認識吧!? What's the point?
    加上前面在玩遊戲, 後面根本就在聊天, 超像菜市場~~ no good no good!

2) 食物
    其實食物我不知道到底是西式還是中式好, 但聽說中式比較便宜, 而且實質上感覺比較好
    但中式都是海鮮, 我個人是比較喜歡 medium rare rib/steaks~ 哈哈哈哈哈

3) Decor
    我覺得 venue decoration 好重要, 真的看到很漂亮的好像只有在照片裡 ((有錢人的婚禮~ 哈哈哈))
    中間的 centre piece 也很重要.
    星期天的婚禮 centre piece 我從頭到尾都以為是假花, 結果是真的! 好可惜阿!!

4) 結婚前都很重要
    星期天的時候, 一個朋友說, 她在橋婚裡的時候, 什麼小細節都非常重要, 一定要這樣, 一定要那樣
    但婚禮快到的時候, 根本成放棄狀態. "本來很 care 的小東西, 到最後都不知道為了什麼在堅持"
    我聽了好好笑
    但也覺得很有道理, 女生都會很堅持自己小時候的 "完美婚禮", 但到最後根本就是太龜毛

去了這麼多對自己的婚禮也有點 idea.
最近也因為 Victor 他姊在看 baby 名字, 她會問我們好不好等等的
感覺婚都還沒結, 小孩也還沒生, 不過感覺已經走了一半了
非常奇妙!!





明年西瓜跟表妹的婚禮一定很精彩!!!!!
明年會很棒啦!! I don't care~~~~~ 不管不管啦!!!




12 comments:

  1. Hahahahaha!

    He is. Sweet guys, at least, he tries!

    And yes, I like small weddings much better too. But I guess sometimes its just being respectful having parents distant relatives invited too. Ohhh, and I think band is important in a wedding too!

    And definitely time to consider a baby too!!!! My little Emma needs a playmate! XD

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    1. oh yeah.. band/DJ is important too!

      LOL, Emma will have to wait my dear.
      You need to move back first!!

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  2. 妳也加把勁ㄚ (菸)
    這樣我可以有proper reason 飛過去看Bubu ㄎㄎㄎ!!!
    Bu can be your 花童 ;)

    i hope you won't be naming your kids with stupid names like terry, michelle, or lisa LOL!!!

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    1. Bu is uncontrollable.. she will be a mess.
      But I will allow her to attend my wedding.
      WAHAHAHAHAH

      No.. our names are one of the worst names..
      = = AVOID for life!!

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  3. Bu can be your ring bearer :)

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    1. she's completely uncontrollable... but good idea :D

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  4. 台灣因為地緣關係 大多是典華哪種whole sale.
    從餐點到婚禮佈置都是成套的. 難有自己風格
    我很愛外國style要一起跳第一隻舞..so sweet.

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    1. 可以有自己風格吧~
      付錢的人最大~~

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  5. hahaha I hate those situations too when I am stuck as date who knows nobody...
    他竟然會當伴郎就知道會忙死, 幹嘛還託你去呢?
    唉算了, 說不定要跟大家炫耀他的美麗女友吧哈哈哈
    你就忍一忍吧 XD
    your point #4 is very correct...
    except I was in "whatever" state long before the day of the wedding..
    never really cared much for details... 我的東西/decor應該對女生來說都很醜吧 XD

    假花假花... XD

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    1. 並不美麗.... 很臃腫
      我現在都不敢照像.. 好慘 :(

      but honestly i think a wedding is more like a party for other ppl... not so much for myself... at lest for me i don't really have a strong urge to have a 'fairy tale' wedding...... having a wedding is so awkward..... when everyone's staring at you...... ohhhh geee.. scary!! LOL

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  6. hahaha I agree, its more a party for your friends.
    and I didnt like ppl staring or being the center of the attention either.
    it was very awkward... XD
    and yeah I am not pro fairy tale wedding too. ours was super easy, lucky Kevin will never know what a bride-zilla is ^^

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    1. yup! and this is one of the reasons why he should clean up the house and unbox all ur stuff for you! wahahahaha!!

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